Dear Carla,
You certainly have a big problem and we'll try to solve!
Firstyly, I think that you should talk with your parents and tell them: "I need to have some independence".
I also think thay you should escape from your home and go out with your friends.
Finally, you shouldn't come to terms with the problem and you should try to solve the problem.
I hope that my advice helps you.
Good luck!